For a Better M&A Deal think Marriage, not Auction

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October 14, 2024
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Allen Darby
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Published in Think Advisor by: John Manganaro

Merger and acquisition volume in wealth management remains sky-high, according to Allen Darby, an M&A transaction consultant, but that doesn't mean the sales and negotiation process has been optimized.

Far from it, says Darby, the CEO of the sell-side consulting firm Alaris Acquisitions, who formerly represented United Capital in its acquisition activities before its own sale to Goldman Sachs in 2019.

"The typical deal process out there looks more like an online auction than anything else," Darby said. "A firm might solicit offers from 75 or 100 different potential buyers. Some of them will sign NDAs and get a closer look, but there is not a lot of nuance. It might result in a seller getting a high bidding price, but that's not the only consideration in a successful transaction."

Darby said he came to appreciate that over the course of more than 35 transactions conducted over seven years consulting exclusively for United Capital — plus an additional nine deals that he had orchestrated in 25 years as a practicing financial advisor.

"Our secret sauce at Alaris Acquisitions is based on our deep experience in buyer identification and seller matching," Darby said. "Ultimately, we believe that bringing a better approach to M&A for both buyers and sellers is important. It results in better outcomes for everyone involved, including the advisors' clients."

The overriding goal is avoiding both buyer's and seller's remorse, ensuring that the acquired enterprise continues to thrive.

The Early Innings

It's best to think about the ideal sales and purchase process in a few phases, Darby said, the first of which starts before any public offers are solicited.

"The very first thing we do when we engage with a potential seller is educate them on the lay of the land and the various steps in the transaction process — so that they're not going to be surprised by anything that comes up along the way," he explained.

Topics to be covered include the broad flavors of buyer models, with a particular emphasis on identifying the pros and cons of each option, as well as the importance of self-reflection by sellers.

Are they simply seeking to maximize the potential sales value? If so, that's fine, Darby said, but it will alter the sales process compared with a more holistic point of view with respect to the future treatment of the advisor, staff and clients.

"We ask, what are they seeking in a partnership and what is their expected autonomy profile going to look like?" Darby continued. "Next, we are going to really organize their financial data, their client data, and all their operations processes and staff."

Ideally, this initial process ensures that the firm understands itself and is understandable to the outside marketplace. Firm leaders can also identify any potential points of weakness in their process and infrastructure before seeking out potential buyers, while also coming to conclusions about their firm's culture.

"Keep in mind, our average client age is 50 or 51 years old, and they are typically hoping to take some chips off the table via the transaction but also stick around for another five, seven or 10 years in some cases," Darby said. "So, it's about both setting financial and quality of life expectations from the start. It's more than prepping for an auction."

Matching Buyers and Sellers

Once this work is completed, Darby and his team do a deep analysis designed to identify a handful of the most appropriate potential acquirers.

"We are able to do this because we spend a lot of time and effort in studying and getting to know all the serious potential acquirers that are out there," Darby said. "We are literally going out into the marketplace and meeting these firms on sight. You learn a lot that way that you can't get off a spreadsheet."

Another important differentiator is creating space for buyers and sellers, once matched, to communicate freely.

"Many sales consultants tend to put up firewalls and act as the only go-between among the buyer and seller," Darby said. "We take a different approach and encourage them to openly communicate and really get to know one another. Again, it's more like a marriage than an auction."

Making the Deal

The next-but-not-final phase, Darby said, is making the deal happen. This is followed by the truly final phase: integrating the acquired entity into the buyer's existing business.

"Once all this understanding has been generated, coming to a transaction price and payout structure is a lot easier, because everyone understands exactly what they are getting into," Darby said.

Many different buyers are making successful transactions, he noted, but there is "definitely a top 20 or so" of acquiring firms that have gotten M&A more or less down to a science.

"What I've seen from our experience supporting sellers is that, to stand out as a buyer, you need to have a dedicated corporate development team and a very well-defined value proposition — and, of course, you need the capital source to fund acquisitions," Darby said. "It is a highly competitive business to be an acquirer in this market."

Darby said he finds himself being approached by potential buyers for insights, and he often discourages ill-prepared firm owners from moving down this route.

"I tell them, you are going to have to compete against some downright amazing organizations with very deep resources, including sophisticated private equity backers in more and more cases," Darby said.

Pictured: Allen Darby, CEO of Alaris Acquisitions

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Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was amazing! Not only did they help me find the right fit (or firm?), but they made the transition much smoother than it would've been on my own. And I believe the overall outcome was much better than it would've been without them."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was a great partner with us in the M&A process. We felt better educated, guided and ultimately able to identify who was a great fit for us as a result of their process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris gave us a great sense of confidence through the entire journey and their knowledge of the buyer universe accelerated the process. They are organized, transparent, and frankly, just a great team to work with. We were very happy with them and received a much higher valuation than we would have on our own."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"I first met Allen and Alaris during the summer of 2021. By the end of the year, my life had changed as they were an integral part in helping me make the next transition in my business career by selling/merging with a bigger company. Their communication and recommendations along the way were priceless, and being that this was the biggest career move of my life, they did a wonderful job at making me feel the very comfortable during the process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris stands out amongst its peers. We appreciate the fact that they took a substantial amount of time to understand our firm and culture - no other M&A advisor has ever done that. The seller economics will always be important and while Alaris seeks to maximize that part of the seller outcome, it's never at the expense of cultural fit."
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"At Beacon Pointe, culture is everything. We know when Alaris brings us a prospective partner they have gone through a robust process, are well educated, and have a high probability of being a fit for our family. It's a refreshing model for our industry."
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CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"We love working with Alaris because they understand our model and culture. When they bring us a prospective partner, we have extreme confidence that it's a great fit for both parties. They truly care about the outcome for the buyer and the seller equally."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris was like being part of a team. their industry knowledge and experience was extremely valuable and the level of professionalism they provided was crucial throughout the entire process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was amazing! Not only did they help me find the right fit (or firm?), but they made the transition much smoother than it would've been on my own. And I believe the overall outcome was much better than it would've been without them."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was a great partner with us in the M&A process. We felt better educated, guided and ultimately able to identify who was a great fit for us as a result of their process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris gave us a great sense of confidence through the entire journey and their knowledge of the buyer universe accelerated the process. They are organized, transparent, and frankly, just a great team to work with. We were very happy with them and received a much higher valuation than we would have on our own."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"I first met Allen and Alaris during the summer of 2021. By the end of the year, my life had changed as they were an integral part in helping me make the next transition in my business career by selling/merging with a bigger company. Their communication and recommendations along the way were priceless, and being that this was the biggest career move of my life, they did a wonderful job at making me feel the very comfortable during the process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris stands out amongst its peers. We appreciate the fact that they took a substantial amount of time to understand our firm and culture - no other M&A advisor has ever done that. The seller economics will always be important and while Alaris seeks to maximize that part of the seller outcome, it's never at the expense of cultural fit."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"At Beacon Pointe, culture is everything. We know when Alaris brings us a prospective partner they have gone through a robust process, are well educated, and have a high probability of being a fit for our family. It's a refreshing model for our industry."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"We love working with Alaris because they understand our model and culture. When they bring us a prospective partner, we have extreme confidence that it's a great fit for both parties. They truly care about the outcome for the buyer and the seller equally."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris was like being part of a team. their industry knowledge and experience was extremely valuable and the level of professionalism they provided was crucial throughout the entire process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was amazing! Not only did they help me find the right fit (or firm?), but they made the transition much smoother than it would've been on my own. And I believe the overall outcome was much better than it would've been without them."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was a great partner with us in the M&A process. We felt better educated, guided and ultimately able to identify who was a great fit for us as a result of their process."
Mike Dohlberg
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"Working with Alaris gave us a great sense of confidence through the entire journey and their knowledge of the buyer universe accelerated the process. They are organized, transparent, and frankly, just a great team to work with. We were very happy with them and received a much higher valuation than we would have on our own."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"I first met Allen and Alaris during the summer of 2021. By the end of the year, my life had changed as they were an integral part in helping me make the next transition in my business career by selling/merging with a bigger company. Their communication and recommendations along the way were priceless, and being that this was the biggest career move of my life, they did a wonderful job at making me feel the very comfortable during the process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris stands out amongst its peers. We appreciate the fact that they took a substantial amount of time to understand our firm and culture - no other M&A advisor has ever done that. The seller economics will always be important and while Alaris seeks to maximize that part of the seller outcome, it's never at the expense of cultural fit."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"At Beacon Pointe, culture is everything. We know when Alaris brings us a prospective partner they have gone through a robust process, are well educated, and have a high probability of being a fit for our family. It's a refreshing model for our industry."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"We love working with Alaris because they understand our model and culture. When they bring us a prospective partner, we have extreme confidence that it's a great fit for both parties. They truly care about the outcome for the buyer and the seller equally."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris was like being part of a team. their industry knowledge and experience was extremely valuable and the level of professionalism they provided was crucial throughout the entire process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was amazing! Not only did they help me find the right fit (or firm?), but they made the transition much smoother than it would've been on my own. And I believe the overall outcome was much better than it would've been without them."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris was a great partner with us in the M&A process. We felt better educated, guided and ultimately able to identify who was a great fit for us as a result of their process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Working with Alaris gave us a great sense of confidence through the entire journey and their knowledge of the buyer universe accelerated the process. They are organized, transparent, and frankly, just a great team to work with. We were very happy with them and received a much higher valuation than we would have on our own."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"I first met Allen and Alaris during the summer of 2021. By the end of the year, my life had changed as they were an integral part in helping me make the next transition in my business career by selling/merging with a bigger company. Their communication and recommendations along the way were priceless, and being that this was the biggest career move of my life, they did a wonderful job at making me feel the very comfortable during the process."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"Alaris stands out amongst its peers. We appreciate the fact that they took a substantial amount of time to understand our firm and culture - no other M&A advisor has ever done that. The seller economics will always be important and while Alaris seeks to maximize that part of the seller outcome, it's never at the expense of cultural fit."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"At Beacon Pointe, culture is everything. We know when Alaris brings us a prospective partner they have gone through a robust process, are well educated, and have a high probability of being a fit for our family. It's a refreshing model for our industry."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
"We love working with Alaris because they understand our model and culture. When they bring us a prospective partner, we have extreme confidence that it's a great fit for both parties. They truly care about the outcome for the buyer and the seller equally."
Mike Dohlberg
CEO Apollon Wealth Management
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